RENACER

Each time a parent comes to our group, loaded with anguish and suffering, looking for answers to the inexplicable.

Tough we do not have all those answers, we are mirrors where you might find yourself reflected and immediately, without wishing, a current of love and solidarity starts making us forget of ourselves thinking about others in pain.
Holding the grieving parent’s hand, the group tries to support accompany and teach him that only sharing the pain helps us to easy it.
Regardless of the circumstances of how our children died or the age at his departure we speak the same language of LOVE.
Grieving together we learn that we have different times to elaborate our morning and this learning produces a deep respect for the other.
Looking each other eyes, we understand that we are not the owners of pain. We stop thinking of ourselves as main characters and we can think about others grief.

As we are not professionals, after our initial shock, and having humility, we realize that we are invaded by a lot of negative feelings, difficult to manage.
Working together at our support group, we try not to be overpowered and badly injured by this negative feeling.
It would be easier for us to be fallen into a deep depression and spend the rest of our life crying or to be submerged into a hard work as a way of denying reality; but together we learn that there still are things worth living and that we need to stand up, to live them.
We also learn that turning over the page and denying our children’s death, we will never reach the PEACE that we really wish.
Together we try to avoid this sorrow managing our existence and we learn that death is part of life, discovering all the messages our children left us, specially loving ones, shearing them with others.
We are looking for spiritually growth to transcend grief and walking the path that left.

In the hope to have the chance of the new way and finding a new life, in each hand offered, each bringing hug, each comforting action, each comfortable word and the brotherhood who understands, helps and grieve exactly the same and suddenly… Rebirth (“RENACER”).